Interview with me on the UAS blog. I talk too much.
"It became about venerating everything that men are supposed to hide. Being a bottom, homophobia, male breasts, daddy/boy relationships, insecurity, hating your gender, hating your physical appearance, hating your emotions, sweaty armpits, a desire for pain and domination, violent urges, blackheads and acne, femininity, erectile dysfunction, cross-dressing. It’s more fun to appropriate something revolting, trashy, or in bad taste, and give it value, than to take something you hate and empty it out until there’s nothing left."